The anal taboo inhibits most people think, speak and learn about the sexual use of the anus. Here are 9 points to most men and women still do not know about anal sex.
1. Anal intercourse is the least practiced form of anal sex.
There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. The most common techniques include touching the anal opening while masturbating or manipulate your partner's genitals, anus or stimulate your partner during intercourse, or oral-genital method.
Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger-own or your partner, hinted at the anal opening and gently rotated. Others prefer the insertion of a dildo or vibrator in the hole or anal canal to the rectum. Many men, including heterosexuals, prefer this form of penetration.
oral-anal method is popularly known as Rimming. The idea as such, some people dislike. Others enjoy practicing or allowing themselves to this special way of anal stimulation.
2. The Anal stimulation, including intercourse, is not painful if done properly.
The belief that anal sex has to hurt is a persistent and damaging myth. Like anywhere in the body, the pain indicates that something is wrong. The same is in the anal area. With its high concentration of nerve endings, the anus can produce extreme pain when it is abused. You can still remain a source of great pleasure.
When a finger, object or penis is inserted into the anus, the anal muscles contract, as if fighting off an invasion. There will be pain if couples do not expect these muscles relax. Under enough stress, they collapse and the pain will give way, unless further harm. But any "pleasure" provided by this type of sexual activity stems from the lack of discomfort.
maximum anal pleasure requires the elimination of all pain and physical trauma of the experience anal. Self-protection by the passive partner involves saying "no" until you are ready to proceed. The "be ready" is a combination of physical relaxation, usually helped by many slow caresses and touches anal and soft, and desire. Occasionally the anal muscles are relaxed, but the passive partner is still not ready to be penetrated. Stimulation must overcome only in proportion to the degree of receptivity.
3. Anal intercourse can be enjoyed even if it has been consistently uncomfortable in the past.
enough desire alone does not necessarily guarantee pleasurable anal intercourse. Nor is it always the reason for a lack of interest or desire for this type of sexual practice after an uncomfortable experience.
chronic anal tension is the most common cause of anal discomfort during stimulation. Hemorrhoids and constipation are usually a sign of this condition. Stress can be relieved by touching the anus and getting to know him. An ideal time to explore the anal opening is while taking a bath or shower. Deep breathing also affects the anal muscles. Contract and relax the anus is another way to learn to relax. Anyone who enjoys masturbation might want to experiment with some form of anal stimulation, though required to stop if you feel any discomfort.
For many, the turning point in the anal stimulation is when you allow the couple to massage the anus with the understanding that no attempt penetration. So who receives anal caresses can concentrate solely on the pleasure that is capable of generating this erogenous zone.
4. Two muscle rings called sphincters surround the anal opening and each operates independently.
The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system, including the muscles of the hand, for example. You can tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want.
The internal sphincter is different. This muscle is controlled by the autonomic nervous system, which governs functions such as heartbeat and stress response. The internal sphincter reflects and responds to fear and anxiety during anal sex. These cause the anus to tense up automatically even if the passive partner is trying to relax. Therefore, take precautions for safety and comfort is essential in this case. Even if you feel comfortable during anal intercourse, you may need to learn voluntary control over their internal sphincter to relax at will. Doing so requires regularly inserting a finger, perhaps in the shower or during a bath every day, and feel the internal sphincter. The muscle changes spontaneously and in response to behavior. In this case, simply paying attention is more important than trying to relax. Anyone can gradually learn to control the internal sphincter voluntarily.
5. The Anal stimulation provides many forms of pleasure.
The highest concentration of nerve endings is around the anal opening itself. A finger can focus particularly effectively. When an object or penis is inserted beyond the anal opening into the rectum, other pleasures are involved. The external portion of the rectum, like the vagina, has several nerve endings. The inmate responds mostly pressure. Some people enjoy feeling the pressure and fullness once they understand that these sensations do not presage an impending bowel movement.
In males, the prostate, which is related to the anterior rectal wall, a few inches in, can be a source of pleasure when massaged with a finger, an object or a penis. Also, the lower end of the penis, or "bulb" is near the anal opening and is stimulated indirectly by most types of anal sex.
anal pleasure can be both psychological and physical. The anal taboo adds to the excitement of the forbidden. Other people regard the anus as a secret and special. Share with the partner is an act of openness and giving.
6. The Anal stimulation can lead to orgasm.
probably do women through pelvic muscle contractions and a small minority by the sheer feeling of being penetrated anally. When men experience an orgasm from anal point tend to focus on the prostate. No doubt they are also responding to direct stimulation of the penis bulb.
more likely to orgasm anal stimulation product occur when participants are fully absorbed by your feelings and fantasies. A certain way to anticipate such orgasm is determined to have one. Find an anal orgasm will create new pressures and disrupt the pleasure.
should be remembered that most people require direct genital stimulation to achieve orgasm. In addition, few people have orgasms only with anal stimulation.
7. Diet contributes to the enjoyment of anal sex.
The regular bowel movements are the main function of the anus and rectum. There must be sufficient fiber in the diet of a person to his stool soft, bulky and well formed. This enables a discharge to occur without force or effort. Mandatory evacuations irritate anal tissues, causing discomfort and adding muscle tension. Fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grain or bran (bran) are important sources of unprocessed fiber.
8. Different rules of hygiene apply to the vagina and rectum.
As intercourse can be vaginal or anal sex, many people assume the same rules and apply them to both vaginal and anal penetration. Although both channels are covered by mucosa (soft tissue), are radically different. The rectum does not produce lubrication like the vagina but only a small amount of mucus. Therefore, anal penetration requires a lubricant. Avoid chemical additives. The water-based lubricants (gel form) are compatible with latex.
The main function of the rectum is to act as a passage for faeces. But feces are not normally stored in the rectum except just before an evacuation. Small amounts of feces may remain in the rectum, especially if the feces are not well formed. Anal washing before sex will help some people concerned about the cleanliness of the area to relax.
9. Anal intercourse can be perfectly safe, even beneficial.
All the other risks center on sexually transmitted infections (STIs or STDs). Each common-gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, can affect the anus. Intestinal parasites and bacteria are usually transmitted when fecal matter comes in contact with someone's mouth or vagina, most likely through oral-anal approach.
AIDS has complicated the issue. HIV can pass from the semen or blood of an infected person's bloodstream partner through small cracks in the rectal tissue during intercourse. To avoid this risk, anal intercourse and oral-anal approach should not be practiced casually. Those who enjoy anal intercourse should always use a condom. The oral-anal approach should always be carried out with a latex barrier. Of course, in a monogamous relationship between 2 people healthy, the risk of disease transmitted anally is reduced.
Thousands of men and women with medical problems have restored their anal health anal challenging their negative attitudes. This approach is indispensable for full erotic enjoyment of the anus.
